Duniya ka sab se khoobsurat rishta wo hota hay jahan apas main ana ya main nahi hoti ... jahan fasla doriyan honay ki bawajood sirf aik muskurahat se ...sirf kisi aik k baat ker lainay se sub kuch pehlay jesa ho jata hay...log aisay logon ko pagal samajhtay hain ya aisa samajhtay hain k un me self respect he nahi hoti ...jab k aisa nahi hota... Jitni bari bari batain ki jain ....jisne nahi samajna nahi samajh paye ga...ye tab he samajh ata hay jab ap khud is amal se guzro...Hum khoobiyon walay shaks ko uski khoobiyon ki wajah se pasand kertay hain aur aisay shaks ko bura samajhtay hain jo apni khamiyan bayan kry....nadan log chamakti cheez ko sona samajhtay hain ...ajj wo dor hay jismay log apnay apko her terha say perfect samajhte hain aur dosron main khamiyan nikaltay hain.....tou azeem to wo howa na jo khud apni zaat k aib bayan kry...pagal logon ki mantaq bhi sirf pagal he samajh saktay hain.....
Kisi ne mujh se pocha k ap k khayal main garoor aur fakhr main kya farq hy? Maine jawab dia... Garoor wo rawaiya hy jisme insaan khudko kisi b dosray insaan se bur'ter samajh k apnay wasf ki tareef aur dosray ki khamiyoon ko tehkeer ki nasron se dekh k un ki tush'heer kry. Fakhr wo rawaiya hy jo ap apnay kisi b wasf ko behter bananey k bd waqar k saath apni shakhsiat may ujager kerty hain. Aur apnay ap ko mazeed behter bananey k liye mazeed mashq(lesson/exercises) per tawajoo markooz rakhty ho. Fakhr ka matlab he yehi hy k kisi b khasiat ko apna k usay ajjzi k saath rooh main basa lia jaye k apki zaat us khasiat ya achai ki muh bolti tasveer bn jaye. Written by Fehmida Chaudhary 18th june 2020