Zindagi main kisi bhi purkhuloos shaksiat ki mojoodgi ap k mushkil se msushkil waqt main BOHAT BARA sahara hoti hay... Jab ap bohat ziada aziat main hon....itni aziat k khud apnay ap se bezar ho jain...zindagi se nafrat si ho jaye...ap logon k diye durd ko khamoshi say sahay jain...aur khud apnay ap say bhi bezaar ho jain...jab ap k pass koi bhi na ho...na hamdam na hamdard na ghumgusaar...ap kisi ko apnay dukh se aagah kernay say bhi derte ho...aur akhri sahary k tor per ap k pass qalam aur kagaz he bacha ho...aisay main kisi din kisi meherban ki dastak say apne ap main gum ap chonk k apne zinda honay ka yaqeen kerte howay...yasiat bhari beyaqeeni k saath us se batain kerte ho...rafta rafta zaat ki sari pertain kholte jate ho....
Kisi ne mujh se pocha k ap k khayal main garoor aur fakhr main kya farq hy? Maine jawab dia... Garoor wo rawaiya hy jisme insaan khudko kisi b dosray insaan se bur'ter samajh k apnay wasf ki tareef aur dosray ki khamiyoon ko tehkeer ki nasron se dekh k un ki tush'heer kry. Fakhr wo rawaiya hy jo ap apnay kisi b wasf ko behter bananey k bd waqar k saath apni shakhsiat may ujager kerty hain. Aur apnay ap ko mazeed behter bananey k liye mazeed mashq(lesson/exercises) per tawajoo markooz rakhty ho. Fakhr ka matlab he yehi hy k kisi b khasiat ko apna k usay ajjzi k saath rooh main basa lia jaye k apki zaat us khasiat ya achai ki muh bolti tasveer bn jaye. Written by Fehmida Chaudhary 18th june 2020