Shirk...

 Main jo ye kehti hun keh mjhy mairay marnay k baad be-qutba qabr main dafnaya jaye. Koi nishani ,koi mansaab, koi hawala, tehreer na kiya jaye. Na he koi istaa'ara ho aur na he koi ishara jo yahan mere dafan hone ki kisi torr b nishandahi kry.

Nahi...iski wajah kisi se narazi ya nafrat ka sabab bilkul bhi nhi. Suna hy marney k baad aap sub k pyarry ho jatay ho.

Wese kitni ajeeb baat hy na ye baat hmay kitni dair se pta chalti hy k Allah ko pyare ho ker he hum sub k pyare bnty hain.

Mujhy ye dar tha k " mri duaon mai asr hy" ki khaber agr kuch laghir maloomat aur be-aqeeday k logon ko hoi tou mere baad meri qabr ko mazar na bna dia jaye. Jahan log dhaggay bandhain, nangay pair chal ker aain. Cherhaway cherhain , dhaamal dalain aur manatain mangain.

Maine us Rb se hamaisha manga. Usnemjhy us waqt suna jab main akailay thi. Usne mjhy us wat sahara diya jab main besahara thi. Usne mjhy tawakul aur emanh se nawaza tou kyoon krr mai b uski rehmaton ki munkir bn jaon.

Main chahti hun meri khani sun ker log mera mazar nahi balkay ALLAH ko dhondain.

Unko ye bat samjh aye k banday aur Allah k darmiyan koi parda nahi.wo tou laad kdrta hy. Aur wo nahi chahta k uskay aur banday k darmiyan koi teesra aye. Rab to kehty hy k Allah se guftugu ki jaye. Wo SHIRAKAT pasand kerta tou SHIRK gunnah kyoon samajhta..

Written by Fehmida Chaudhary

20th april 2020

Galti...

Izzat, Lehaaz, Ahtaram aur Murawat ki maari howi aurat k saath jaiz haq tak cheer chaar krain. Jaiz had matlab uski bardasht ki akhri line se tajawuz ki galti na he krain to behter hay.

Ye na ho k

In izzat lihaaz ahtaram aur murawat ko wo alfaaz ki had main rehtay howay ap ki jism k rowey k rongtay kharay ker day aur boti boti ka reesha laraz k reh jaye. Alfaaz ka zero bomb, ziatiyon k gola barood k bhi parakhchy ura sakta hy.

Kisi k nafrat k aatishdaan ki lambi lapton wali aag ko bujhaney k liye mazloom ki ankh ka aik ansoo ka qatra he bht hota hy.

Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
4th july 2020

Ae’saal’ -e- sawab...

Jis terha “Rooh” k nikal jane k bad jism kisi kaam ka nahi rehta isi liye manon mitti tallay daba dia jata hy.
Bilkul isi terha agr kisi orat k dil se uski “IZZAT” ka der nikal jaye to wo usi murday k jesi he hoti hy jis ki rooh uska jism chor chuki ho. Amomum aurat nam he “IZZAT AUR HAYA” . Izzat ka der her aurat ko he hota hy per yahan per baat us izzatdaar aurat ki horhi hy jiska fakhr aur maan uski haya aur pakeezgi uska assassa e hayat hoti hy. Aisi roohon k faislay duniya ki alooda fiza main teh nahi kiye jatay. Un cases ki sunwai ALLAH KI ADALAT may hoti hy jahan Allah he Judge hy. Wohi waqeel aur wohi gawaah. Koi deal hoti hy na he kafara ya kasaas hota hy. Kyoon k kafara galtiyon ka hota hy gunnah ki tou saza hoti hy na. Aur apnay murda jism zindagi Bhar apne he kandhon pe laad k phirney walon ko zinda tasawer krna he nhi chaheye. Kafaray zinda wajood ki ziati k ada kiye jatay hain. Maray howey wajood k liye tou AE’SAAL’ - E - SAWAB kia jata hy.

Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
4th july 2020

Kuch achi batain...

Ibadatguzar banday ka ibadat kernay pe takabur kerna bilkul aisa hy jesay kisi chez ko deemak ander he ander khaa jaye aur akhir may wo cheiz tewara k zameen bose hojaye.

Sari umr apni ibadaton k khumaar main rehnay walay jab Allah ki baargaah main hazir hotay hain tou un ki peeshani ka teeka ya hajj umron ki tadaad,  rozay ki qaboliat ya tadad ka hisaab nahi hota.

Gaur kijiyega. Taadad maani nhi rakhi. Niyat ka ajer dia jayega.

Mene ye observe kia hy k hmare yahan namaz, roza,hajj kerne walay ya kuch hifz kernay walay khud he khudko "Naik" samajh k jannat k haqdar samajh letay hain. Aur bajaye is k keh wo log ajzi ikhtiar krain aur ikhlaq ki passdari kertay howay deen ki mohabat logon k dilon main paida krain. Wo apnay app ko aala tareen musalman samajh ker dosron ki tazleel kerna shuru kr detay hain. Kufr k bad sakht tareen gunnah kisi musalman ki beizzati kerna hy. 

Meri ammi nay hmari jin khatoot pe tarbiat ki hy un main namaz rozay k ilawa b beshumar cheizain hain jin k hum Allah ko jawabdar hain. Maslan...

Kabhi kisi ka nam na bigaro ya uski zahiri shaksiat ki kisi kami ko le kar uska mazak urao ya galat nam se pukaro.

Jab kisi ka koi aeb pta chal jaye to usko dhanpoo. Allah us k badlay may tumhare aeb dhanpay ga.

Hamaisha sach bolo. Mazak main b jhoot na bolo. Jhoot ki gunjaish is sorat may hay k agr kahin nafrat prne ka imkan hy tou jhoot ka sahara lene main burai nahi . Maslan do logon main larai hy aur dono main nafrat b tou hum dosti krwane k liye ye keh dain alag alag dono ko k arey wo to tumhari bht khobiyan bayan krta hy.

Do logon ki sulah kerwane wala jannat me mehel bna leta hy.

Kisi ka aetimad kabhi na toro. Jo usne ap pe kia ho.

Jo wada kro wo pora kro.

Kisi ko jhooti umeed mat do. Bat wohi kro jo nibha sako.

Amanat me khayanat na kro. Amanat ki aik he qism nhi hoti k kuch rakhwa dia jaye aur wapis kr dia jaye mangne per. Iski iqsaam hain bohat . Jiski misaal ye b hy k Meri ami agr mohalay se koi cheiz pak k aati thi to wo plate khali nhi deti thin. Aur aglay din jab tak parosiyon ki plate ko istamal b na kernay deti k ye amanat hy hmare pass unse pochay bagair isko use krna b gunnah hy.

Ye 

Kisi ka raaz b hmaray pass amanat he hota hy. Jis main khayanat ka b gunnah hy.

Tasdeeq k bagair koi baat kerna jhooti afwa phelana bhi gunnah hy.

Batain to hazaar hain kyoon k maa hmaisha he beti ko kuch na kuch nasihaat krti rehti hain.

In baton ko share kernay ka maqsad ye b hy k in sub pe amal krna bhi utna he zaroori hy jitna farzi ibadaat zarori hy.

Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
3rd july 2020
I wish meri ye tamam batain agr Allah ko achi lg jain to unhain meray waldain aur bhai ki maghfiraat ki dua samajh k un k aala darjaat krdain aur unko pasandeeda bandon main shumar kerlain ameen sum ameen.

RAB ka kam ... RAB he janey...

Instagram pay aik post perhnay ka moqa mila jisme kisi mausoof nay makafat e amal se mutalik likha tha k mard ko hi kyoon makafat e amal sehna pryga jo larki maa baap ki izzat daar charhati hy wo b utna he haqdar hy makafat e amal ki.

Ye zehniyaat perh k kuch to mae saktay may agai k waah kya taujeeh pesh ki hy.

Mere bas me ho tou aesi soch k tamam mard hazrat k demagh ki nasain nikal k aik he dafa aab e zaam zaam se dho k ye lagu'yaat nikal dun.

Kash main unko bta skti k Makafat e amal hamaisha un k saath hota hy. Jinki niyaat kisi b kaam ko anjaam dene k liye KHARAB ho. Ye to suna he hoga k aamal ka daro'madar hmaisha NIYAT pr hota hy. Tou jab koi b mard kisi b ghr ki izzat se khelta hy to wo lakh pardon main rakhy apni izzat ki ameen aurton ko. Allah ka teh kia howa qanoon hy k wo qarz us k apnay ghr se ada hoga. Allah se jang hy aisi batain kehna.

Subne apni qabron main apna hisaab dena hay. Ap ko kisne kaha hy k CALCULATING MACHINE le k ghr ghr phiro aur un aurton ki izzat aur haya ki percentages naptay phiro.

Ahtisaab kerna aur saza o jaza tajweez kerna Allah k kaam hain . Hum aam insano ko tou apni aamal ki kitab ki noak palaak sanwarney se he fursat nahi honi chahye.

Auraat ko her waqt tarazu main na tolain. Usay insan samjhain gajjer moli nahi.

Jo shaks apni nzron ki hifazat kryga us k ghar ki aurat Allah ki panah k hissar main hoti hain.

Mard bhi utna he gunagar hy kisi b gunnah ka murtakib ho k jitna gunahgaar auraat hoti hy kisi gunnah ko kerty howay.
Maine ajj tak koi hadees koi kahawat koi ayat nahi perhi jisme sirf "mard" hona bakshish ki wajah bna ho.

Mard ka bht uncha martaba rakha hy Allah ne. Baap ki sorat main, bhai ki sorat main, betay ki sorat main, shohar ki sorat main. Auraat ka darja mard se kam raakh k uski izzat main kami nahi ki gai hy. Balkay mard ko us k wajood ki hifazat k liye GUARD bna k uski nizakat ko naaz bukhsha gaya hy.
Izzatdaar mard uski b izzat kerta hy jiski izzat koi b nahi kerta.

Hmari society main mard ki pardaposhi k liye keh dia jata hy k ye to mard hy. Ya jawani main sb mard ye kerty hain. Matlab kisi b mard k gunah ki justification ye hy k mard hy.

Justifications duniya main chalaingi sirf. Kyoon k ye human made justification dunyawi jhooti tassali'yaan hain. Allah k yahan insaf ka tarazoo tulta hy. Jahan jins ka taayun kiye bagair aamal tolay jainge aur wahan hee'lay , waseelay kaam nahi anay. Na naam o nasb ki shujraay kam aney hain.

Fehmida Chaudhary arz kerti hain

Ker bhala ho bhala...
Berhta rhy
khair ka ye silsila...

Hoti nahi jinse hazam
Hmari khushi...
Khain wo Dabar ka Hajmola...😉😁😄

Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
28th june 2020

Kiraye ka ghar...

Mujhay ab kisi ki di gai aziat pe rona nahi aata. Main ab hans parti hun. Her insan k niqab pert der pert dekhti hun aur dua kerti hun k Ae Allah mjhy in k shr se bacha. Mujhy ye kamil yaqeen hy k jita Allah mjhse azmaish chahta hy us se berh k koi mjhse bura nhi ker sakta.
Moat aur rizq Allah ne teh kiye howay hain. Kisi ki kya majal jo un me kami kry ya cheen lay. Shukr aur sabr khawahishon k bartan ko kabhi khali nhi honay detay.
Kam bolna kitna bara sukh hy agr mjhy pehley pata hota to main bolna seekhti he nahi. Dukh pe sabr ka ajer itna hota hy to main kabhi khushi mangti he nahi.

Duniya mjhy ab kiraye ka ghar lagti hy. Jahan Lord ka aik notice aye bagair he aik joray kafan main char kandhon pe laad k go gazz zameen main shifting kerni paraygi. Aur phir gin gin k aik aik hisaab.

Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
24th june 2020

Made for each other...

Maine ye bohat bar suna hy k joray asmanon pe banty hain. Her relationship main up downs b hoty hain aur ikhtilafat bhi. Kyoon k her insaan aik sa nhi hota. Yehi wajah hy k jab do log kisi rishty main bandhty hain to us rishtay ko nibhanay k liye wafa, khaloos, qurbani aur aainay jesi shafafiat honi chahye. Sirf aik insan ki koshish koi b rishta rakhne me kabhi bhi kamyab nhi ho sakti. Dono tarf aik c koshish hoti hy to rishta bnta hy. Warna talluq k touq ko sirf ghaseeta he ja sakta hy.

Main usay bachpan se janti thi wo larki hassad,keena, jalan ki kasrat main mubtila aur jhoot bolna aur us pe datay rehna. Na khud khush rehna aur na he dosray ko khush dekh pana. Jab tk rang main bhang na daal de sakoon perta he nhi tha. Baaz logon ko hmaisha he apne apko bechara bnana aur apni galti ko dosron pe dalna bht acha aata hy. Wo apni nazr main becharay he hotay hain. Wo b in ramooz se wakif thi aur phr subne dekha k us k liye us jesa he aik shakhs bheja gaya. Jhoot tou ghutti me tha goya. Qasamain khana khail tamasha aur bat ker k mukr jana baen haath ka khail tha.

Munafiq ki pechan perhi thi kahin k jab bolay jhoot bolay. Amanat may khayanat kry aur wada kry to pora na kry. Amli tafseer jab dekhi tou mera dil bol utha. "Both are made for each other."

Logon se intiqam lene ki aag me jalne walay log kab khud Allah k attab ka shikar ho jain
Pata he nahi chalta.

Mein bohat khush hun k kisi ko tou koi apnay jesa mila.

Ujlay chehray aur kalaay dil se laakh behter hain wo kaalay chehray jin k dil ujlaay hun.

Allah k faislay kabhi bhi galat nahi hotay aur un se ikhtilaaf ker k Allah se jang nhi kerni chahye.

Guzar jannay wali zindagi wapis tou nahi asakti per apni galtiyon pe nidamat mehsoos ker k anay waly dinon ko behter bnaya ja sakta hy. Suna hy tauba rooh ko nikharti hy. Tauba ki taufeeq  b Allah he deta hy aur hidayat tab he milti hy jab niyat naik kerli jaye.

Ap kisi ki zindagi asan nhi ker sakty tou mushkil b na bnain. Jo pather ajj ap kisi ko kamzoor jaan k us k raasty me atk'aingay wo pahaar bn k apki saath nasloon ko bhugatna pryga. Allah jb kisi ko taqat deta hy tou uska zarf azmata hy. Jo taqat ka galat istemal kry wohi uski auqaat hy. Aur jo achy hotay hain wo ajjzi ikhtiar kertay hain aur Allah k Qeher ko dawat nahi detay. Kyoon k Allah ko jalal ata hy to bastiyon ki bastiyan tabab o barbad hojati hain. Firoun is duniya main ibraat ki sbse bari nishani hy.

Acha sochain, acha krain. Aur agr acha kernay ki chahat na ho to bura na kerna ko he apni adat bnalain. Aur Allah naik niyat per b sawab deta hy. Aur tumhain phir b der na lagay to socho qabr ki pehli raat, hisaab kitab aur amaal ki khaali kitab. Kya ab bhi jism pe larza taari nhi howa...?

Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
24 june 2020