Bulbul ki kahani _part 01
Main jo bhi kuch likhti hun wo meri he kahani ho aisa bilkul nahi hy per ye sach hy k ye sub jo main likhti hun aap betiyan hain logon ki jinhain main janti hun ya jinse kabhi mili hun. Her insan ki alag alag kahani hy. Bas pardaposhi ki wajah se nam aur jaga ya khandaan btana main zaroori nahi samajhti. Mera maqsad sirf aur sirf ye hota hy k dosron k haalat waqiat hamain sabaq aur tajurbay ki baat btaty hain aur hm pe beeti un k liye ahtiat hoti hy. Insaan ta'umr seekhta hy. Jab insan ye soch ley k wo afzal hy usay sb pta hy to ye uski tabahi ka baiss bnta hy. Ilm kitaab aalim he dars ka baiss nahi. Kuch cheizain hmain seh ker he samajh aati hain.
Bulbul meri dost thi jo k ab nhi rahi is duniya main. Ajj bethay bethay yaad aggai.
Maa baap apni jaan armaan maar k aik aulad ko paalty hain . Wo kabhi bhi jaan bojh ker aulad k liye bura nahi kertay. Per kuch percent hain bhi jo larkiyon ko bojh samajh k bs apne farz se subukdosh hona chahtey hain.
Sub ki apni apni soch hy . Meri soch ye hy k jab 2 log shadi k muqadas rishtay main bandhty hain tou un main se aik bhi agr sincere nahi hota tou wo rishta toot'ta zaroor hy. Ab is rishtaay ki mudat ya mayaad kitni hy iska sara ka sara daro'madaar us shakhs per hy jo k MUKHLIS hy, imaandaar hy. Jitni bardasht us mukhlis ki hogi utna he ye rishta chalay ga. Jis din uski bardasht khatum hogi usi din rishta b khatum. Aur kabhi kabhi aik insan ki bardasht ka arsa uski aadhi zindagi pe moheet hojata hy. Sabr ki tasbeeh perh perh k zindagi guzarney walay ki bardasht khatum nahi hoti per us tasbeeh ka dhaaga bodaa aur kamzor ho ker toot jata hy aur us k daanay titar biter hojatay hain aur isi terha wo insan bhi bikhar jaata hy.
Shadi ki raat dulha dulhan aik dosry ko achi achi batain btatay hain apnay baray main. Main ye hun main wo hon. Mujhay ye pasand hy aur wo na'pasand hy wagaira wagaira.
Garz ye k apnay baray main acha bol bol k ainda ki zindagi main agr wohi sub kuch 2 dono main se koi aik wohi sb kernay laga jo wo kehta hy/ya kehti thi tou banda aik dosrey se shikwa shikayat kerta hy. Baat aai gaai hojati hay kyoon k apne achi baton se zindagi ka safar shuru kia hota hy.
Achi achi batain ker k mukar janey wal itna khaternaak nahi hota. Jitna khaternak wo insan hota hy jo apni burai aik din b chupa na paye aur apny amal se zahir ker dey.
Bulbul ney mjhy btaya k us k shohr nay usay 10,000 rupee diye haq meher k aur jab wo change kr k ai to uska shohar us k pars se nikal k apni jaib maib rakh raha tha. Wo hairan ho k bol pari k ye kia krhy hain aap??. Kyoon k ye baat wo susral k logon se kai baar sun chuki thi thi k baray bhaiyon ki biwiyon k haq meher b chori howe thy. Aik raat ki dulhan k hawas jo baakhta thy wo kaam kernay lagay k janab ye kuch aur he kahani hy. Mazeed baat subha khul gai jab uski saas apney betay ko koos rahi thi k 10,000 nahi nikal saka. Juru ka ghulam k tanay alag. Tab tak bat samajh aye k haram halal ka, jhoot ka, dhokay ka koi concept is family main hay he nahi.
Meri kabhi bhi ye adat nhi rahi k main galat mashwara dun. Bulbul ne jab ye baat mjhse share ki tou maine bht soch k ye mashwara dia k tum maa baap ko zaroor btao.per usne ye baat sun k ura di , muskura di aur kaha mjhy unka jawab pata hy. Maine hairan ho k pocha k acha mjhy b btao. Tou hansi aur boli k unka jawab hoga k ab shadi kerdi hy ab wahin rehna hy. Yahan hansti hoi ana aur jana wahin hy akhir. Isterha tou koi bhagi howi baaghi larki k saath nahi kerta.
Us k bad wo jab aati aik naya zakhm dikha k jaati. Wo mun mohni sorat wali larki jis k bohat talabgaar thy. Apni kam shakli status aur khamiyon ko adjust kernay k liye wo aksar bulbul pe ankhain dekhata k tum main koi khaami hogi jab he achi jaga rishta nahi howa aur mjh jesay ko de di .
Jab ye taana purana hogaya tou wo makar admi apnay complex uski shakal main, rang main aur baton main khamiyaan nikaal k puri kernay laga.
To be continued....
Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
28th April 2020
Bulbul meri dost thi jo k ab nhi rahi is duniya main. Ajj bethay bethay yaad aggai.
Maa baap apni jaan armaan maar k aik aulad ko paalty hain . Wo kabhi bhi jaan bojh ker aulad k liye bura nahi kertay. Per kuch percent hain bhi jo larkiyon ko bojh samajh k bs apne farz se subukdosh hona chahtey hain.
Sub ki apni apni soch hy . Meri soch ye hy k jab 2 log shadi k muqadas rishtay main bandhty hain tou un main se aik bhi agr sincere nahi hota tou wo rishta toot'ta zaroor hy. Ab is rishtaay ki mudat ya mayaad kitni hy iska sara ka sara daro'madaar us shakhs per hy jo k MUKHLIS hy, imaandaar hy. Jitni bardasht us mukhlis ki hogi utna he ye rishta chalay ga. Jis din uski bardasht khatum hogi usi din rishta b khatum. Aur kabhi kabhi aik insan ki bardasht ka arsa uski aadhi zindagi pe moheet hojata hy. Sabr ki tasbeeh perh perh k zindagi guzarney walay ki bardasht khatum nahi hoti per us tasbeeh ka dhaaga bodaa aur kamzor ho ker toot jata hy aur us k daanay titar biter hojatay hain aur isi terha wo insan bhi bikhar jaata hy.
Shadi ki raat dulha dulhan aik dosry ko achi achi batain btatay hain apnay baray main. Main ye hun main wo hon. Mujhay ye pasand hy aur wo na'pasand hy wagaira wagaira.
Garz ye k apnay baray main acha bol bol k ainda ki zindagi main agr wohi sub kuch 2 dono main se koi aik wohi sb kernay laga jo wo kehta hy/ya kehti thi tou banda aik dosrey se shikwa shikayat kerta hy. Baat aai gaai hojati hay kyoon k apne achi baton se zindagi ka safar shuru kia hota hy.
Achi achi batain ker k mukar janey wal itna khaternaak nahi hota. Jitna khaternak wo insan hota hy jo apni burai aik din b chupa na paye aur apny amal se zahir ker dey.
Bulbul ney mjhy btaya k us k shohr nay usay 10,000 rupee diye haq meher k aur jab wo change kr k ai to uska shohar us k pars se nikal k apni jaib maib rakh raha tha. Wo hairan ho k bol pari k ye kia krhy hain aap??. Kyoon k ye baat wo susral k logon se kai baar sun chuki thi thi k baray bhaiyon ki biwiyon k haq meher b chori howe thy. Aik raat ki dulhan k hawas jo baakhta thy wo kaam kernay lagay k janab ye kuch aur he kahani hy. Mazeed baat subha khul gai jab uski saas apney betay ko koos rahi thi k 10,000 nahi nikal saka. Juru ka ghulam k tanay alag. Tab tak bat samajh aye k haram halal ka, jhoot ka, dhokay ka koi concept is family main hay he nahi.
Meri kabhi bhi ye adat nhi rahi k main galat mashwara dun. Bulbul ne jab ye baat mjhse share ki tou maine bht soch k ye mashwara dia k tum maa baap ko zaroor btao.per usne ye baat sun k ura di , muskura di aur kaha mjhy unka jawab pata hy. Maine hairan ho k pocha k acha mjhy b btao. Tou hansi aur boli k unka jawab hoga k ab shadi kerdi hy ab wahin rehna hy. Yahan hansti hoi ana aur jana wahin hy akhir. Isterha tou koi bhagi howi baaghi larki k saath nahi kerta.
Us k bad wo jab aati aik naya zakhm dikha k jaati. Wo mun mohni sorat wali larki jis k bohat talabgaar thy. Apni kam shakli status aur khamiyon ko adjust kernay k liye wo aksar bulbul pe ankhain dekhata k tum main koi khaami hogi jab he achi jaga rishta nahi howa aur mjh jesay ko de di .
Jab ye taana purana hogaya tou wo makar admi apnay complex uski shakal main, rang main aur baton main khamiyaan nikaal k puri kernay laga.
To be continued....
Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
28th April 2020
