Insaan ki hasiat do terha ki hoti hain.
Dosra maali hasiat
Fitrati hasiat asal main insaan ka asal hoti hy. Fitri hasiat insaan k ander “build in”nahi hoti balkay ye insaan ki umar k saath saath us k ander paida hoti jati hain aur wo insaan in aadat aatwar ko khud paal poss k “bara” kerta hy. Her insaan ki fitrat aik bachy ki terha hy. Jitne aadab aur lihaz sikhaoge naik fitrat bnyga aur jitna bigaro gay to sarkashi uska khassah banaygi.
Tarbiat kabhi bhi fitrat nahi badal sakti. Insaan ka ander wesa he banta hy jesa wo insaan hota hy. Jis terha hum kisi ki niat nahi bhanp sakty bilkul usi terha fitrat naapnay ka bhi koi paimana nahi.
Aik cheiz jo mjhy zindagi nay sikhai wo ye k kisi insaan ki fitrat sirf usi waqt pata chalti hy jab hum us shakhs ko kisi ko takleef ponchata dekhain ya phir us shakhs ko apni takleefon ka mawazeena dosron ki takleef se kerta dekhogay. Aur hamaisha us insaan ko apna dukh bara he lgyga aur dosry ka dukh hamaisha chota. Jab k dukh to chota ya bara nahi hota. Durd aur dukh sehnay ki salahiat her insan main alag alag hoti hy. Her insan ki CAPACITY k mutabiq he Allah kisi ko dukh deta hy. Bardasht se ziada nahi. Ye jo baray naik waali log hotay hain ye aam insan se ziada bardasht rakhne ki wajah se he tou Allah se jurtay hain. Ye Allah ki azmaish main poray uter ker he tou aala zarfi bardast k asman ko chootay hain...
Fitrat ki achai maal ki kaami ko pora ker sakti hy. Achay ikhaq ki wajah se.
Magar
Maal ki ziadti kabhi bhi fitrat ki khamiyon ko dhanp nahi sakhti. Sonay k pahaar hun ya heeron k haar kabhi bhi fitrat k aeb nahi chupa sakti.
Zarf jitna bara hoga utna he insaan bara hota jayega.
Kia hy na k kaamzarfi k piyalay may zaat ka ochaa pan uchal uchal k bahar aata hy. Piyalay ki wussat bhi is khami ko rok nahi paati.
Zarf may wussat tab bhi paida hoti hy jab aap hassad k hisaar se bahar atay ho. Kisi ki khushi cheen k dukh dey k insaan kabhi bhi bara nahi bnta. Baaz dafa hamaray jhuk k milney ko log hmari kamzori samajhty hain jab k phoolon ki aabyari main kanton se chot to lgti he hy na. Kanton k zakhm us phool ko dekh k mundamil hojatay hain.
Kanton ki chuphan k daar se kabhi phool uganay bhi chorhtay hain bhala.
Written by Fehmida Chaudhary
3rd May 2020