Ghum aur khushi her aik ki zindagi may hoti hay...han quantity may farq hota hay...per koi ghum ya khushi chota bara nahi hota.......ye to bas hota hay......zindagi may apnay dukh dard ko halka mehsoos kernay ka simple formula hay k ap apnay say kam logon ko dekhain....agar apko ahsas hay tou ap usay mehsoos ker lo gay k ye bhi to hay......per amomun aisa nahi hota...hamain apna ghum duniya ka sub say bara ghum lagnay lagta hay....
Meri maa nay bachpan may (4) batain itni dafa repeat ki hain k ab jab kahin ye jumlay likhti hon ya sochti hon to mehsoos hota hay k wo meray samnay khari hon aur bol rahi hon......
1...Kisi dosray ko koi bat kehtay howay wo bat khud per rukh ker soch lo k agar koi tumko kahay to tumhain kaisa lagay ga....mukhlis ho k jawab do to tum samajh jao gay k kisi say kia bat kerni hay kia nahi..kis bat per kisi ka kitna dil dukh sakta hay....
2...Achon k saath tou sub he acha kertay hain...bat to tab hain jab tum us k saath acha karo jis nay tumharay saath burai ki hay....dil dukhaya hay...ya bura kaha hay...ya koi aisa amal kia hay jis say tumhain takleef howi hay....
3...Kabhi kisi ka mazak na urao....na galat nam rakho k ye aisay kam ALLAH aur us k mehboob ko na pasand hain....kyoon k jo ALLAH say mohabat ka dawa kerta hay wo us ki makhlooq say bura salook ya badsalooki kaisay ker sakta hay....
4...Aik aur bat jo shayad dosron ko sunker ajeeb lagay per wo ye kehti thi k hamaisha kisi bhi gair mard k saath karakht lehjay may bat karo...k wo tumharay lehjay ki mulaimat ko tumhari kamzori na samjhay.......ye adat aisay shamil ho gai hay k ab seedhay muh bat hoti he nahi hay ...hahahhaha...
khair bari serious bat ho rahi thi......baat bhi kahan say kahan nikal gai.........ajj aik book may do aur khobsurat batain perhi hain.......
Ik to molana roomi ki hay....
Ap k pass
agar koi bemari
ya ghum ki khabar
ya koi sadma
ya koi hadsa
ya koi nakhushgawar khabar ati hay
aur dastak deti hay ap k darwazay per tou sub ko khush amdeed kahain...
Kyoon k ....
Ye sub paraishaniyan jo ati hain us k bad koi bohat achi khabar anay wali hoti hay...
Ik aur bat ......Khalil jibran...
Ghum aur khushi dono behan bhai hain kyoon k agar khushi ap k saath sofay per bethi hay
Tou
Ghum ap k qadmon may betha hoga
wo uthay ge to GHUM beth jaye ga....
Haye kitni khobsurat bat hay ...dil bagh bagh hogaya....
Kash main in logon k zamanay may paida hoti........
do char sawal he poch laiti .......:p
jo zehan may flood ki terha umund umund k atay jarahay hain..............:D
Fehmida
Ajj apni ye blog dekh ker dil ker raha hay gungunanay ka....
Hari thi man bhari thi.......
Raja jee k bagh may doshala oray khari thi............:)